10 Lessons Blogging Has Taught Me About Growth, Life, and Connection
In the past couple of years, I started writing this blog on a weekly basis. At first, putting my thoughts into text felt like a waste of time and effort. I didn’t know who would read it, how my words would resonate, or if they would even reach anyone at all.
What intrigued me the most was the decision-making process of the human mind—why some people embrace change while others resist it. Even those willing to change often hit a hard stop at some point. Why? Why do some refuse to alter the daily realities they can’t accept while others take that leap into transformation?
So, I began writing.
I wrote because I needed to learn more. I felt I had something to share, and I hoped my words could make a positive impact on anyone who might find them in a moment of need.
My inspiration came from everyone I know—and even from those I’ve yet to meet. Many of my articles draw from real experiences on the training mat, moments with my children, and encounters with people who shy away from self-defense despite desperately needing to learn it. Some of my inspiration comes from those who never reached out and never took the step but whose struggles I still feel compelled to address.
What I didn’t expect, however, was how much I would change through the process. Writing became more than just a tool to share my insights; it became a mirror reflecting my growth, my flaws, and my ongoing journey as a teacher, a father, and a student of life. Over time, I realized I was learning just as much from writing as I was sharing.
Here are the 10 lessons blogging has taught me and how they’ve shaped not only my writing but also my approach to teaching, training, and living.
The Lessons I Learned from writing a blog
1 . You Never Know Who’s Reading or How It Affects Them
When I started blogging, I had no idea who would read my words or how they might resonate. Yet, over time, I began to hear from people—some from distant countries I’ve never visited—who shared how my words brought them hope, clarity, or even the courage to change.
This experience of reaching unseen lives and creating a one-sided yet deeply meaningful relationship for both parties has been profoundly moving. It’s an incredible honor to know your thoughts can influence someone’s reality, even if you’ll never meet them or learn about it.
- Writing Reflects Your Growth
One of the first things I realized through blogging is how much I evolve over time. Every time I revisit an old text, I see it differently. What once felt insightful now seems incomplete or naive. Why? Because I’ve learned and deepened my understanding since then. Writing mirrors internal changes—a snapshot of a specific moment that shows where you were while reminding you how far you’ve come. - Self-Expression is Power
Writing allows me to open a window to my soul. It’s both liberating and intimidating. Sharing my thoughts, emotions, and experiences is an act of vulnerability, but it’s also the foundation of genuine connection. Despite the fear of being misunderstood or judged, the relationships created through authentic expression make it all worthwhile. - Simplicity is Power
Writing in a foreign language forced me to keep things simple. What initially felt like a weakness became one of my greatest strengths. The limited ways to express myself pushed me to refine my thoughts and find clarity in my expression. Over time, the foreignness faded, and the language became a tool that served me rather than a barrier to overcome.
Once again, I learned that complexity isn’t necessary. Even the most intricate ideas can be made accessible through simplicity. Clear communication is an art, and often, the simplest messages are the most memorable. When you strip away the excess, what remains is the core truth that truly resonates.
Simplicity, in fact, is one of the main principles of Krav Maga—a lesson I carry with me both on the mat and off.
- Stay True to Yourself
Words, once written, linger. That’s why staying true to yourself is essential. I’ve learned not to try to be someone I’m not or adopt a voice that doesn’t reflect who I am. Writing should be a genuine reflection of my values, beliefs, and unique perspective. Authenticity not only builds trust but also gives my work its distinct identity. - Emotions Are Temporary
Writing captures a moment in time. The emotions I feel—whether joy, pain, or anger—can seem eternal in the moment, but they’re not. Revisiting what I’ve written reminds me that even the strongest emotions fade. This realization is both comforting and humbling, a reminder that life is forever changing, and so I am. - Write with Purpose and Responsibility
Having readers means taking on a responsibility. My words carry weight and have the power to influence others. Writing with intention and being mindful of this impact is essential. It’s not just about me—it’s about offering value, perspective, and support to those who choose to engage with what I share. Every sentence can become an inspiration to someone, spark hope, or offer clarity. Words have the ability to touch lives more than punches ever will. That is a privilege I don’t take lightly. - Not Every Thought Needs to Be Shared
When I don’t have something meaningful to say, I choose not to write. Filling space with trivial or empty words isn’t worth the time or effort—for me or for my readers. There’s wisdom in embracing silence, pausing to listen instead of rushing to speak. It’s in that stillness, observing and reflecting, that inspiration finds its way back to me, regenerating the spark to write with purpose and authenticity. - Criticism is Inevitable
No matter how thoughtfully I write, critics will always be there. Some feedback will be constructive, offering real insight, while much of it will lack value. Negative voices will never disappear, but they don’t define my path or my self-worth. Instead, I choose to focus on constructive feedback—the kind that inspires me, challenges me, validates my efforts, and reminds me why I began writing in the first place: to make a difference, even if it’s just a small one. - Do Everything with Love
If you’re going to write, write with love. Let your passion for the subject guide your words, and your authenticity will naturally shine through. When you write from a place of love, your words carry warmth and sincerity, resonating deeply with others. This connection creates a genuine and lasting impact, transforming your writing into something that not only informs but also inspires.
Personal Reflection –
Blogging isn’t just about sharing thoughts and ideas—it’s about connection, growth, and creating a legacy. It’s a chance to reflect deeply, to uncover truths about yourself, and to leave behind something meaningful that continues to impact others long after you’re gone. Words have the power to inspire, to teach, and to remind the world of what mattered to you most.
These lessons have also reshaped how I approach teaching and training in Krav Maga and beyond. They’ve pushed me to reflect on the meaning behind every movement and every lesson. Teaching has become more than passing on skills—it’s about constantly improving, embracing growth, and finding significance in the smallest details.
The recognition that learning never ends fills me with joy. I will never be bored because there will always be something new to learn, improve, and dive deeper – as a person, as a teacher, and as a fighter.
Do something amazing,
Tsahi Shemesh
Founder & CEO
Krav Maga Experts